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Review: B Swish Bdesired Deluxe

The B Swish Bdesired Deluxe is at the lower end of the vibrator price scale. At $34, it’s a body safe, battery-operated vibe that’s compact and easy to operate. When B Swish reached out to sponsor a review, I warned them my reviews are honest. I don’t hold anything back, […]


Confession: My Last Sex Toy Party

I was more nervous than I knew I’d be. I’m always a little nervous, but I was particularly restless that Saturday. This would be my last sex toy party for the foreseeable future. I put in my notice to quit my contract with my sex toy party company several weeks […]


Review: Pleasure Works First Mate

We picked out the First Mate because we were looking for dildos with more girth than we’re used to. The good folks at Good Vibrations were sending the Jopen Callie rabbit, and asked me if I’d like something from their in-house Pleasure Works line as well. The only dildo that fit the bill was realistic. This would […]


Confession: Latuda Changed My Life 1

A little over 6 months ago, I suffered a terrifying mental breakdown and was rushed to the ER. I then spent a few days on the psych ward. Many readers have asked how I’ve been doing since. It’s been a little quiet around here, but that’s mostly due to burnout […]


Review: Lovehoney Desire G-Spot Vibrator

Lovehoney Desire G-Spot Vibrator is the short name I’m giving for the Lovehoney Desire Luxury USB Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator. Don’t let the highly specific, long-winded product name fool you. It’s is a serious competitor to high end luxury vibes. I wouldn’t go so far as to say this is exactly on par with them, […]


Confession: Untangling My Relationship with Porn

I have a strange history with porn. When I first became a feminist, I avoided porn. Carrie and I both did for a while, since there’s a nuanced question of consent that keeps coming up, and I think that still plays into my viewing of porn today. I’ve also experienced issues […]


Confession: I Was Committed to the Psych Ward 3

This is my third piece on having a mental breakdown at the beginning of the year. These posts discuss mental illness experiences in detail and may be triggering to some readers. You may wish to read the first two pieces, one on the breakdown itself and the other on my […]

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Tantus Gary dildo leaning on a candle

Review: Tantus Gary

Tantus Gary was the first dildo we used with the Orgasmatronics X2 Orgasmatron, and the first time we’d played with the 7″ realistic wonder. It resulted in an incredibly intense, squirting orgasm literally within seconds. Gary is all business and all pleasure. Basic Stats The Tantus Gary is a part of the […]


Confession: I Had a Psychotic Mental Breakdown 4

You read that right. I had a psychotic mental breakdown. Trigger warning: I’m going to describe exactly what that’s like. I’ve been pretty open about having bipolar 2. It finally came to a head one night. I’m going to write a series of posts on my experience because I had a […]


Review: Sex Is a Funny Word 1

I know this isn’t my standard review faire, but as a sex-positive parent, I’m happy to find sex-ed resources I can recommend. Sex Is a Funny Word was written by Cory Silverberg, who boasts an impressive sex-ed resume, and Fiona Smyth, whose gorgeous illustrations brilliantly represent bodies of literally all colors, genders, […]