Gender Musings


Confession: Woodhull #SFS16 – Finding Comfort

“It’s not a cold! It’s just allergies!” Oldest protested after I asked him to sequester himself to his room. After all, we were about to go on a week-long conference in a few days, Youngest was about to spend that week at a sitter, and it would be horrifically bad […]


Confession: I Am Angry – Politics, Privilege, and the Pulse Shooting in Orlando

Content Warning: Gun violence, homo- and transphobia, racism, and general insensitive Christian cishet nonsense. I think I nearly made my awesome, but incredibly empathetic therapist cry during our session on Friday. There is so much going on about this whole situation that hurts and infuriates me, but I can’t seem […]


Confession: Woodhull #SFS15 – I Left My Husband 5

Carrie and I celebrated our 10th anniversary while at the Woodhull #SFS15. I walked into that hotel room with my husband, excited for the transformational seminars and workshops, time with friends, and marital revelry without the burden of parenting. We had no idea it would change our lives.


Preview: HommeMystere Lingerie “for Men” 1

I had been eyeing HommeMystere’s sexy and adorable lingerie lineup for quite some time. So when I found out that Mary had contacted them, and they agreed to send some products for me to try out for an unbiased review, I was thrilled. And did they ever deliver! We thought […]


Confession: I Am Gender Fluid 1

CW: mentions of gendered violence toward the end. Everyone gets hungry. Imagine with me for a moment: you just woke up, it’s a beautiful morning, and you are hungry. After rolling out of bed, you shuffle to the kitchen, perhaps put some coffee on, and start to make some breakfast. […]